Jennifer Garner has reportedly cut Jennifer Lopez off from almost all aspects of her life. Oops!
Although we J. A lot has been heard about Lo’s failed relationships, they were romantic partnerships.
Sometimes, disagreements between friends can cut just as deeply – if not more.
After a back-and-forth with Ben Affleck, the two were getting along well with Jennifer. But it seems this friendship has ended. Why?
According to what insiders are saying The Daily MailJennifer Garner is setting limits with Jennifer Lopez.
Reportedly for months J. After working as a marriage counselor for Lo and Ben Affleck, she is no longer in contact with the singer – except for matters related to their children.
Between Affleck’s two failed marriages to Lopez, Garner and Affleck dated for more than a decade. They include 18-year-old Violet, 15-year-old Finn and 12-year-old Samuel.
An insider revealed, “Jen no longer wants to communicate with J.Lo unless it has to do with the kids.” The Daily Mail,
“Her friends think she shouldn’t have let herself get so involved in helping J.Lo set up her wedding to Ben,” the insider said.
The source declared, “Especially considering that Jen felt pitted against J.Lo at times during their marriage.” “Jane is very nice and really wanted to help, so she tried.”
Apparently Jennifer Garner felt J.Lo was using her
According to reports, Jennifer Lopez’s sister Linda visited Violet in college.
“Jen felt weird getting close to J.Lo, Violet, and then Linda coming to Violet’s school,” the insider said. “Jen’s loyalty is to the father of her kids — Ben — and their kids. Because they love J. .love lo.
The source insisted: “But Jen would never speak ill of him or talk negatively about him.” But, the insider added: “Everyone knows that if J.Lo wants to spend time with her kids away from Violet, it has to go through Jen.”
While Jennifers Lopez and Garner may care about some of the same children, Garner felt it was ultimately too inappropriate for Lopez and Affleck to play the role of “mediator”.
The insider commented, “Jen feels like she’s being used as a pawn in J.Lo’s attempt to repair her marriage.” The report then stressed: “She does not believe it was intentional.”
The insider described: “She was put in the middle and her friends think – no matter how you look at it – a man’s ex-wife should never play the role of mediator in a divorce from his new wife.”
The source comments: “Especially when said wife was a great love compared to Jane during their 13-year marriage.”
As for Jennifer Garner’s broader sentiments, the insider shared: “She’s happy that Ben is happy now.”
Ben Affleck’s two ex-girlfriends understandably feel awkward. Setting boundaries, even if it means cutting off each other completely, is a healthy part of moving forward.